The Last Lecture
I have a second cousin, Tammy, who I really don’t know. But I am learning about her through her blog that documents her family’s current situation. Her husband Bryce was diagnosed with melanoma at age 26 as the result of years of lifeguarding in the sun. After a year of treatment he was said to be cancer-free. Now six years later, he and Tammy have been married for four years, and 8 weeks ago he was told that his cancer had returned with a vengeance. Their lives have been turned completely upside down as they struggle with finding new treatments, dealing with oxygen, blood transfusions, trips in and out of the hospital, and their baby girl. I have read her blog, cried, and reminded myself how lucky I am to have the blessing of a healthy family, a loving husband and four fantastic, beautiful children. We just never know what tomorrow will bring, and I have learned so much from her family. I so appreciate that she is willing to share her experiences with us.
With all of these thoughts in the back of my mind I was moved when I heard the story of Randy Pausch, a computer science professor who recently gave his last lecture. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and has just months left to live. His lecture is inspirational and embodies all of the things that he wants his three small children to know about their Dad. I am truly amazed at the grace I have seen in these two families as I have peeked into their lives. Their bravery and stamina is stunning.
Hug your family, spend time together and appreciate them… and then go put on some sunscreen!
httpvh://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_8kUTUIveyA
Gosh I can’t imagine!
I can’t even begin to imagine how hard it is. I’m in complete awe of their incredible fight and outlook. They’ll be in my prayers from now on too.
Thanks for sharing Tammy’s blog with everyone, as well as that video. I hope none of us have to write that speech soon. Tammy’s latest entry on 9/24 indicates things are getting worse very fast, which sometimes is how God blesses those who suffer – that their time of suffering is shortened. Tammy’s mom Marion is the daughter of Uncle Stanley (my dad’s brother) and Aunt Edith; Marion is my same age, and she and her husband Dan sing in the Tabernacle Choir. We pray for their comfort.
Two such a touching stories. Life can change so quickly, are we really ever prepared for the twists and turns? I got such a lump in my throat after reading and listening to it all. They are all so courageous.
I think they were on the news last night on Get Gephardt about his school trying to get money even though he can’t attend. I am pretty sure it is him. I will look it up to be sure.
It is him here is a link to his story. http://kutv.com/consumer
there is a video that shows their family it is so sad.